chore: drop deprecated options related to `CIBW_ENABLE` #4589

Job	Run time
Linters (mypy, flake8, etc.)	1m 55s
Test cibuildwheel building Pyodide wheels	5m 31s
Get qemu emulated architectures	13s
Test on ubuntu-latest (3.13)	20s
Test on windows-latest (3.13)	14s
Test on macos-13 (3.13)	21s
Test on macos-14 (3.13)	16s
Test on ubuntu-latest (3.11)	21s
Test Linux aarch64 using qemu	17m 5s
Test Linux armv7l using qemu	16m 13s
Test Linux ppc64le using qemu	17m 5s
Test Linux s390x using qemu	17m 11s
	1h 16m 45s

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